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    Today's topic:

    Yesterday one friend of mine asked me a question: what do you think about mental age?  which is much better, older or younger than your physical age? To this, different people have different points of views. that's why I want to have a discussion with you.

    Different from physical age, mental age is an intelligence test score. Physical age, as we all know, means how long you have lived in the world.But mental age is much related with one's world view，values and life style. Generally, there is a gap between mental and physical age，behind or advanced. For me,my internal mental age has lagged behind my physical age.And it occurred to me that in my head, I'm not a grownup;I think of myself as being in my early 20s,however, the fact is not what I thought.

    So we're curious: how old do you think of yourself as being, and how different is that (if at all) from what the calendar tells you?

    you want yourself to be more mature or you refuse to being a grownup?

    Please write down your ideas.

    今日话题：

    昨天一位朋友，对我提出了一个问题：“心理年龄大一些好还是小一些好”，我认为这是一个见仁见智的问题，所以想和大家一起讨论一下。

    心理年龄，与实际年龄相对应，表示的是一个人的心理成熟度。实际年龄只表示你来到这个世界的时间长短，而心理年龄却与一个人的世界观、价值观、生活方式等关系密切。通常来说，人的心理年龄和实际年龄间都有一个差距，或早于或晚于。对我而言，我的心理年龄远小于实际年龄。我通常认为我不是一个成年人，我还认为自己不过20出头，可事实远非如此。

    因为我们的问题是：你认为自己心理年龄是多大？与实际年龄的差别是什么？

    你想自己更成熟一些还是拒绝长大？

    请把你的看法写在下面。

My mental age is smaller than my fhysical age,which have both good and harm.A person with small mental age have more happies and less trouble.SO he will be keep young much long time.And looks more young than other people of his age.

For me ,I believe I am younger than my phsical age.Like what others say :you can not be grownup.But i like myself,just so.

i think the factor which decide you young or old is not age but your view to the world.wether you have a guiding principle of life is important.the principle which dicide your quality of future is positive or nagative.dont concern how old are you but pay more attention on be yourself.keep nature and be honest of yourself.you will be better

I do not wanna grow ut too.Being one of the growups will think about too much things,such as worry about job,money,family and so on.I purpose that nowadays children are early matured.I think it is not good for their health...whenever and wherever we are,we should keep a young heart.It much easier for us find happiness.

When I was a child, I want the metal age is older than physical age. That will be easy to get praise. When I have grown up,it changed. I'm always thinking that I am still young, I still can work or happy to mid night and.... But unfortunitely, it is not true!

i believe i'm always 25 years old.

I think mental age is more important than physical age.If you want to achieve somthing ,you must have mature mind .

i refuse to grow up because i am afraid of responsibility.

I want to be more mature,but i don't want my physical age add.It is very antinomy.When I grow up the heavy pressure of life let me feel tired and unhappy.

i don't want to grownup.but not just stop at ,i want the time stop at my 18year old ,i don't want to make wrong decision.but .......

If physical age shows how long you've been living in this world, metal age shows what you've been experiencing in this world. Generally speaking, pressure,difficultes,frustration,helplessness and all kinds of bitter experience will make you metally grow up. As for me, i think i am a person whoes metal ages is advanced.

In my opinion,we should adapt to adult's life.We should grow up to eran enough money for daily life expend.Although,i'm not want to face the cruel society,we should make it!

I do want to grow up . I hope become a man and can earn much money .So I needn't ask my parents to send me money . I kown that is hard ,but I still want to become an adult . In fact I like fairy tales, but I can't escape from the wolrd!

i grown up in one day because a girl!we are together for 5 years but she leave me at last!

i think one person's appearance is relate to his mental age properly. he can't looks youger if he worries about the things every day, vice versa, the person, who takes the things easy and has smile on the face every day, must look younger and charming...

i have the same pionts of view with EVEN, in different states, i have different "ages" ,for example ,at home ,i often like a
child, but when i worked at school or office, the state is different, i think this is often happened in our life

"Age is just a number!"
I think it really doesn't matter how old you are, Life is just life.
Work as you are!

That depends. Sometimes you appear to be more mature regarding to your physical age, and sometimes you are not.
Everybody may do some rediculous things.However it's not right to make the conclusion that you are childish.
From my point of view, there's not a specific gap between physical age and mental age.

My mental age is lagged behind physical age.It occurs to me I'm more like a teenager.Maybe it sounds very childish,but when I was a child,I was afraid to grow up.However,now I do hope to be more mature.After all,every age hes its own happiness and worries.

sometime i am pround of myself that stil can make up as a young girl,then i feel charming the whole day;and sometime i keep myself alone to be a thinker,about all my life.That is all i wanna say,i hope to be mature and remain youful whenever follow my ininclination.