恋爱婚姻总要两厢情愿。如果有人对你一往情深地告白，你却不感冒，该怎么拒绝才能把伤害减到最低呢？下面的几个句子也许可以给你帮点忙。

　　1. I'm not attracted to you.你不吸引我。

　　“I'm not attracted to you.” 这句话在电视或电影上常常听到，意思就是“你不吸引我”，也就是 I don't like you. 这句话比较婉转的说法。

　　I don't like you. 听起来很直接、比较刺耳，如果别人跟你告白，但你对他并没有意思，你不妨客气一点地说I'm not attracted to you, but we still can be friends. (你不吸引我，但我们还是可以当朋友。)

　　2. Maybe I don't deserve you.也许我真的配不上你。

　　Deserve (应得的) 是一个在英文中很好用的字，它用在谈恋爱方面有许多有趣的用法。“我配不上你”英文就是I don't deserve you. 电影《Sleepless in Seattle》里安妮和沃尔特分手时就是这么说的。如果有人失恋了，你也可以安慰他说：You deserve someone better. (你一定可以找到更好的。), 或是She doesn't deserve you. (她根本就配不上你。)

　　日常的会话中也常常用到一句“You deserve it!”，这句话是说这是“你应得的”，就是“活该、自作自受”的意思。比如有人老爱脚踏两条船，结果到头来同时被两个女人给甩了，这种人你就可以对他说 You deserve it.

　　3. We don't match each other.我们两个不配。

　　和上一句的 I don't deserve me. (我配不上你) 不同，We don't match each other. 指的是“我们两个人不配”。Match 这个词除了当动词外也可以拿来当名词用，比如你要说“某两人很相配”，你就可以说 You are a perfect match.

　　Match 还可以用在穿着方面，比如Your clothes don't match. 指的就是两件衣服不配 (例如红衣服配上绿裤子之类的)。

　　4. He is not my type.

　　他不是我心目中的类型。

　　女孩子们聚在一起总是会对周遭的男生品头论足。“He is not my type.” 是常用的一个句子， 意思就是“他跟我不适合啦。/ 他不是我想要的那个类型。”

Joke of Today

I have bad and very bad news

     Doctor:  I have some bad news and some very bad news.
     Patient: Well, might as well give me the bad news first.
     Doctor:  The lab called with your test results. They said you have 24 hours to live.
     Patient: 24 hours! That's terrible! What could be worse? What's the very bad news?
     Doctor:  I've been trying to reach you since yesterday.